What are some Common Signs Of Abuse?
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Neglect: Poor hygiene or unkempt appearance.
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Fear: Avoidance of specific adults or general anxiety.
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Physical Disruptions: Chronic eating or sleeping issues.
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Low Self-Esteem: Negative self-image or withdrawal.
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Behavioral Shifts: Aggression or inappropriate language.
These signs do not automatically mean abuse, but are signs to be aware of in children.
What do I do if I suspect my child has experienced abuse?
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Make a report of abuse to DHR or Law Enforcement.
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Avoid asking to many questions.
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Support is most important to your child. Allow them to speak and control the conversation.
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Work with your investigators to work through the investigative process.
How do I report suspected Abuse?
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To report suspected child abuse:
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Contact the Department of Human Resources and make a report. You can do so anonymously.
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Contact your local law enforcement agency and make a report.
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Inform a Mandated Reporter, such as a social worker, doctor, teacher, therapist.
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St. Clair County DHR: 205-812-2100
What do I need to know about Abuse?
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Abuse can happen to ANYONE.
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Nearly 700,00 children are abused in the United States each year.
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Most often - a child is abused by somebody they know.
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Disclosures of abuse should be taken seriously. Children seldom lie about abuse.
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Changes in behavior are one of the biggest indicators of something going on.
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Abuse is frightening and difficult to disclose. Children do not always disclose immediately.
Common signs of Child Sexual Abuse?
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Sudden Secretive Behavior
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Disclosures or Hints of Inappropriate Behaviors: "games" that include sexualized activities, "weird" games
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Physical Signs: Sore genital areas, UTI's
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Regressive Behaviors: Uncommon bed wetting, thumb-sucking, clinginess
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Avoidance: Avoiding certain places or people, fighting about not wanting to go places they used to enjoy.
These signs do not automatically mean abuse, but are signs to be aware of in children.
What is my role as the caregiver after a report has been made?
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First and foremost - be there for your child. Trauma is a scary time for a family and difficult to navigate.
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Do not over question. Allow the forensic interviewers and law enforcement to gather the facts.
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Take care of yourself as well. This is also a difficult time for you
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