What are some Common Signs Of Abuse?
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Neglect: Poor hygiene or unkempt appearance.
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Fear: Avoidance of specific adults or general anxiety.
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Physical Disruptions: Chronic eating or sleeping issues.
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Low Self-Esteem: Negative self-image or withdrawal.
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Behavioral Shifts: Aggression or inappropriate language.
These signs do not automatically mean abuse, but are signs to be aware of in children.
What do I do if I suspect my child has experienced abuse?
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Make a report of abuse to DHR or Law Enforcement.
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Avoid asking to many questions.
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Support is most important to your child. Allow them to speak and control the conversation.
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Work with your investigators to work through the investigative process.
How do I report suspected Abuse?
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To report suspected child abuse:
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Contact the Department of Human Resources and make a report. You can do so anonymously.
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Contact your local law enforcement agency and make a report.
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Inform a Mandated Reporter, such as a social worker, doctor, teacher, therapist.
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St. Clair County DHR: 205-812-2100
What do I need to know about Abuse?
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Abuse can happen to ANYONE.
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Nearly 700,00 children are abused in the United States each year.
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Most often - a child is abused by somebody they know.
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Disclosures of abuse should be taken seriously. Children seldom lie about abuse.
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Changes in behavior are one of the biggest indicators of something going on.
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Abuse is frightening and difficult to disclose. Children do not always disclose immediately.
Common signs of Child Sexual Abuse?
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Sudden Secretive Behavior
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Disclosures or Hints of Inappropriate Behaviors: "games" that include sexualized activities, "weird" games
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Physical Signs: Sore genital areas, UTI's
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Regressive Behaviors: Uncommon bed wetting, thumb-sucking, clinginess
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Avoidance: Avoiding certain places or people, fighting about not wanting to go places they used to enjoy.
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These signs do not automatically mean abuse, but are signs to be aware of in children.
What is my role as the caregiver after a report has been made?
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First and foremost - be there for your child. Trauma is a scary time for a family and difficult to navigate.
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Do not over question. Allow the forensic interviewers and law enforcement to gather the facts.
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Take care of yourself as well. This is also a difficult time for you
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